Cash or a wedding registry? Personal or practical? We show you how to communicate your wishes so your guests enjoy giving you something - and you don't end up with three blenders in the cupboard.
Cash, Physical Gifts or Experiences?
Most couples today would like cash - e.g. for the honeymoon, a bigger purchase or their first home. That's perfectly fine and is even expected.
Still, some guests love being able to give something personal. A mix of a cash request and a small gift list with concrete ideas is often the best solution.
How Do I Ask for "Cash Gifts" Gracefully?
Saying "We only want money" outright can easily come across as rude. Nicer: "We've already set up our home together. If you'd like to treat us, we'd be delighted by a contribution to our honeymoon/our new home."
Phrased on your wedding website or on a small card included with the invitation, this feels natural. Putting it directly on the invitation is a bit too pushy.
A Wish List with Concrete Ideas
A curated list of 10-20 concrete ideas (with a picture and approximate price) is a huge help to your family and friends - especially those who are set on giving a physical gift.
With Zweierteam, the gift registry is built in and 100% free. Guests see the list, reserve a gift, and you get no duplicates.
Experience Gifts Are Trending
Instead of classic cash or things, experience gifts are becoming increasingly popular: a weekend getaway, a hot-air balloon ride, a cooking workshop, a dance class for two. They feel personal and create memories.
Tip: Put together a wish list of experiences that guests can contribute to in part. That way, friends on a smaller budget can chip in too.
After the Wedding: Saying Thank You
Every guest should receive a personal thank-you card within 4-6 weeks of the wedding - ideally with a wedding photo and a sentence or two about what the gift meant to you.
Keep a list of who gave what. That way, you'll avoid any awkward mix-ups of gifts.